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“ONE BEHAVIOR THAT’S SABOTAGING THE HELL OUT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS.”

Shaun Grant
5 min readApr 5, 2019

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The very first thing we must ask ourselves before we enter into any relationship is this: “ Why do I truly desire to be in a relationship?”

I can remember coaching a few people who couldn’t seem to answer this clearly. The same went for those who were in relationships but were struggling with their partners.

The reason it’s so important for us to ask this question is because this is an answer that will offer us the most significant aspect of any area within our lives, CLARITY.

Clarity allows us to know what our prime objective is in anything we take part in. If clarity isn’t present, we can do one of two things:

1. Find clarity at all costs

2. Leave the situation immediately. (Lack of clarity means running in circles)

My goal is always to spare you the heartaches and headaches I had to go through before I discovered a relationship that served me in all ways. That’s the main reason why I chose to begin with the concept of clarity.

Once you have your clarity, then you can move to the next important question. “Am I truly free to be myself in this relationship?Or does getting into one appear to be something that

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Shaun Grant
Shaun Grant

Written by Shaun Grant

Shaun Grant is a dynamic entreperformer that is a recognized authority in personal performance & transformation. Consciousness in all areas is what he lives for

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